How do I practice postpartum self-care?
Bottom linePractice postpartum self-care by covering the basics - rest, regular nourishing meals, hydration, and gentle movement - while protecting your mental health by talking about your feelings, accepting help, lowering expectations, and taking short breaks; attend your postnatal check-ups, keep up wound and pelvic floor care, and contact a clinician for warning signs or low mood lasting beyond two weeks.
Looking after yourself after birth isn't a luxury - it's part of recovering well and being able to care for your baby. Self-care in the fourth trimester is mostly about basics, support, and being kind to yourself.
Cover the basics
- Rest whenever you can and prioritize sleep over chores
- Eat regular, nourishing meals and stay hydrated (especially if breastfeeding)
- Keep taking any supplements your clinician advises
- Get a little fresh air and gentle movement when ready
Protect your mental health
- Talk about how you're feeling and stay connected to people
- Accept and ask for help - share night feeds and chores
- Lower your expectations and let some things go
- Take short breaks when someone can hold the baby
Don't skip your own care
- Attend your postnatal check-ups
- Keep up perineal or wound care and pelvic floor exercises
- Watch your mood - the baby blues are common, but lasting low mood needs support
When to reach out
Contact a clinician for physical warning signs (heavy bleeding, fever, severe pain) or if low mood, anxiety, or feeling unable to cope lasts beyond two weeks. Asking for help is a strength.
Femora helps you track your recovery, mood, and habits so your own needs don't get lost in newborn life.
Sources
- Postpartum care - MedlinePlus.
- Your body after the birth - NHS.